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Attracted to co worker

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Prontehpronto · 14/06/2025 11:40

Hi, I've been working with a collegue for around 8 months now but just recently I've suddenly become very attracted to him. We are both married, I would never do anything as I have young children and wouldn't jeopardise my marriage for what is clearly an infatuation. I am sure he is attracted to me as when we are in the office he generally finds an opportunity to be where I am and will teams calls me when I work from home. I don't feel worried as he hasn't overstepped the mark. Would like some advice on how to navigate and reduce these unwanted sudden feelings of infatuation on my part, I am thinking about him a lot, and its causing me some anxiety. Posted here for some traffic and advice. Thanks

OP posts:
Dangermoo · 14/06/2025 11:44

Remind yourself you're married with kids while splashing your face with cold water?

ThankULord · 15/06/2025 13:43

OP, that's tough.
Is your marriage happy? What's life with your partner/DH like? Do you spend time together? Laugh together?

These feelings usually burn out especially if you don't do anything to grow closer to him.

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