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Colleague at work making me feel uncomfortable

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Fletcher97 · 10/06/2025 20:43

I have been there longer but I’m not qualified as I’m support staff. She has a qualification (nursery) she’s mentioned a few times me not being qualified. She is stand offish, stares at me a lot with a ‘mean girl’ look, only way I can describe it. Like a smirk, every time I look up and catch her eye she’s staring in that way. She blanks me whenever I’ve said hello in a morning and she just doesn’t look my way when I say it, like I’m invisible. She doesn’t make any conversation with me like she does with my other colleagues and when I’m talking to another colleague about something I notice out the corner of my eye she’s like frowning. She brushes me off if I have to ask for help and she just makes me feel really uncomfortable tbh. I don’t know how to approach it as it’s starting to make me feel on edge. What would you do? I haven’t done anything that would upset her or anything like that.

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TheOriginalEmu · 10/06/2025 20:44

Speak to your line manager, don’t make it a huge deal but let them know. Start logging if she does anything specific so if they ask you what is the problem you can point to specifics.

Lmnop22 · 10/06/2025 20:49

Do you have to have direct contact with her?

If not just stay out of her way and leave her to it

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