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Imheretobenosey · 07/06/2025 22:15

Am I able to check for someone elses partner without there knowledge? is there a possibility the partner will know I/they have done so?
this person has spent time in prison but I’m unsure if there was violence/abuse. i believe his emotionally abusive and to me that’s bad enough but I’m concerned things are going to get worse.

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Endofyear · 07/06/2025 23:33

Yes you can but the police won't give you the information, they will contact your friend if they feel that the information they have means he poses a risk. They won't tell her who asked for the disclosure though. Would she guess it's you, do you think?

Imheretobenosey · 08/06/2025 07:35

Endofyear · 07/06/2025 23:33

Yes you can but the police won't give you the information, they will contact your friend if they feel that the information they have means he poses a risk. They won't tell her who asked for the disclosure though. Would she guess it's you, do you think?

Yes definitely, I’m the only person who she confides in

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