So my wife of 40 years abruptly changed her behavior.She volunteers at a very small food cupboard that my cousin runs from part of her house,she takes in boarders as well.On the 3 or 4 days my wife went there she started doing really fancy braids and things with her hair- she has very long beautiful hair.We're talking Bo Derick-Laura Croft or the Wendys girl.All VERY exotic-sexy or school girl cute.In our 40 years together she's never done that much with it, just normal stuff.This started when a young guy moved into my cousins and started helping at the food cupboard.It;s just the 2 of them most of the time,cousin is usually gone.She does this only on those days and did for months.When confronted she says its nothing- a coincidence-trying new stuff or denies doing it that much.Why would you go to that much trouble to go sort cans in a garage ? She also was there much more than usual . Now all of a sudden she stopped and is all lovey dovey and speaks lowly of the "help" she gets. What do ya'll think ? I'm ready to leave.It's tearing me apart. Thans