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To not understand this at all?

21 replies

PinkCotton · 19/05/2025 18:21

I was talking to a guy for a while and we had been on 2 dates. then all of a sudden he was gone off my Facebook account and disappeared with no contact or anything. I just thought right bit weird but obviously he doesn’t want to talk to me and then a couple weeks later, today he randomly came back and messaged saying ‘so sorry, my ex deleted you off and I have no idea why’. I don’t know what to think of this, 1. Would you believe this. 2. Why would his ex have access to his social media? 3. Or He must have been with her and she did it in person?

OP posts:
arethereanyleftatall · 19/05/2025 18:23
  1. no, because
  2. exactly
  3. maybe but either way it’s nothing you want to get involved in
BakelikeBertha · 19/05/2025 18:24

I smell B.S.!!

OtterlyMad · 19/05/2025 18:25

Either way sounds like drama, I couldn’t be arsed with it!

Shuttered · 19/05/2025 18:26

I wouldn’t give him, or the situation a second thought.

S0j0urn4r · 19/05/2025 18:26

Taxi!

PraisebetoGod · 19/05/2025 18:27

I would put money on the fact he isn't single.

babystarsandmoon · 19/05/2025 18:28

Ignore and block. You do not need that kind of drama in your life.

Snickersnack1 · 19/05/2025 18:29

Plenty more fish in the sea…

Justchillinhere · 19/05/2025 18:34

Wow too much drama, I'd block and never give it another thought

Platespace · 19/05/2025 18:36

It doesn't matter if it's true, you don't want any part of it

Starrynightwishes · 19/05/2025 19:09

I wouldn't believe it for a second OP!

Jammiesdodger · 19/05/2025 19:09

Oh I'm nosey, I'd have to ask?

Professionaldisciplinary · 19/05/2025 19:10

He was off with someone else could have been his ex but either way he dropped you and it trying to pick you back up again

PullTheBricksDown · 19/05/2025 19:12

Professionaldisciplinary · 19/05/2025 19:10

He was off with someone else could have been his ex but either way he dropped you and it trying to pick you back up again

This. His other option has gone cold again. Ignore. Or tell him you're dating someone else now and he'll disappear again

LemonLass · 19/05/2025 19:13

Hi @PinkCotton
I think you have answered your own questions?

  1. Would you believe this. 2. Why would his ex have access to his social media? 3. Or He must have been with her and she did it in person?

Any of those = dont waste any more of your time on this gameplaying toad (unlesd you like games)

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Flamingoknees · 19/05/2025 19:14

Surely he'd of just put you straighr back on again - not wait 2 weeks. He's eirher not single, or was seeing someone else the last few weeks. My money is on the first option.

ToKittyornottoKitty · 19/05/2025 19:16

Well he must have been with his ex for her to gain access to his social media and specifically delete you… seems obvious he got back with her, deleted you, got dumped/bored of her and then readded you. If you aren’t first priority now then you never will be OP so run a mile

Itseatingmeup · 19/05/2025 19:19

He was trying out someone else and it didn't work out so he's come back to you.

Ablondiebutagoody · 19/05/2025 19:28
  1. No
  2. She wouldn't
  3. Probably not. I would guess that he was sniffing around someone else, possibly the ex, and they wouldn't have sex with him so he's looking for another option.

Doesn't really matter. You need to tell him that you're no longer interested and block him.

londongirl12 · 19/05/2025 19:29

far too much drama so early on. If it’s true (which I doubt ) do you want to be involved with drama with an ex?

FatLarrysBanned · 19/05/2025 19:51

⬆️ What they all said.

If you're feeling generous, send him a quick message "Thanks for the explanation, all seems like a lot of aggro and drama which isn't really my scene. All the best PinkCotton"

Then block and delete.

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