Not sure how to word this...
If your husband/partner has a Reddit account...
Check that he's not chatting sexually to women on there, sending d pics, sexting, it'll be in the chats
Also that there's so many married men who claim to be in dead bedrooms (not had sex for ages). Sometimes they are lying, and it's been weeks or months, not years.
I've honestly lost count of men who are married/partnered, sending DMs, d picks, specifically don't want to pay/access OF/paid for content, so try and start sexy chat with random non OF women.
Are they trying to avoid paying because they can't afford it? Or don't want it to appear on bank statements and get caught.
It might now show in their profile what they have been commenting on, subscribed to.
I think it's extremely disrespectful to their wives and partners. So soon as they are alone. They message. If their wife's are upstairs in bed, they are elsewhere messaging. They do it in the car, are work, taking 1 hour on the toilet? Who is he messaging.
They complain that they aren't getting enough sex or any at all. Their wives are menopausal ect, tired, make no effort, no interested, low libido.
I think to myself...maybe you aren't good in bed, maybe you should help your wife with the house/kids? Instead of messaging other women work on your relationship, communicate with each other.
Be more involved, take the initiative? Loose weight because you are obese and maybe she's no longer attracted to you ? Being whiny and demanding sex isn't sexy either.
But what if they are still having regular sex. Then he's obviously lying, but also cheating and being undermining her.
Discord, telegram also get used for messaging.
There's a subreddit called deadbedrooms, they are all over their complaining.
I've had to block, turn off chat ability and delete and make a new account . It's been very eye-opening