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Does the perfect pair of jeans exist??

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biggienotsmall · 11/05/2025 18:31

Ive put weight on over the years, and Im the biggest ive ever been (size 18). I went shopping for jeans today, and now I feel like I want to jump off a cliff 😂😭

What jeans do you all buy that are good length, fit round the bum, and disguises your belly (at least a little bit)

I do prefer a skinny/slim, high waisted style - is this where I am going wrong?

For reference, im 5'5", size 18, and hold weight round the middle

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KentishMama · 11/05/2025 18:47

Skinny jeans are not really in fashion at the moment, and if you carry your weight in the middle, then they emphasise that. What other shapes have you tried?

AlertCat · 11/05/2025 18:49

Try Levi’s 90s 501 jeans or their wide leg jeans.

xmasdealhunter · 11/05/2025 18:51

Wide legged jeans with a bit of stretch are the way forward. The Halara ones are good, they have a variety of styles but they're all stretchy (and very comfortable!) Women’s Halara Flex™ Mid Rise Button Zipper Multiple Pockets Baggy Wide Leg Stretchy Knit Casual Cargo Jeans - Halara

Fuhjutvb · 11/05/2025 18:52

Anyone tried Snag jeans?

Lazydogonthebed · 11/05/2025 18:52

Marks and Spencer EVA jeans, slim bootleg, lovely and comfortable and true to size.

uncomfortablydumb60 · 11/05/2025 18:55

Levi 501’s ( skinny)
They’re slim rather than slim and come up high enough to hide pot belly
They’re a nice shape around the bum
Loads on Vinted if you don’t want to commit to full price.
Brand alley often has them too

namechangeGOT · 11/05/2025 19:03

Diesel Skinzee! They’re skinny jeans and I don’t give a shit if they’re in fashion or not because I know what suits me, what looks best without being instructed otherwise by the Fashion Bobbies 👮‍♂️

lovegoodlovegood · 11/05/2025 19:10

M&S magic jeans are good on me (size 16/18)

curtaintwitcher78 · 11/05/2025 19:13

New Look Adelae high waist wide leg.
I'm never going back to skinny again. The light blue is the material with the nicest stretch and belly hiding. The mid blue is little more stiff and the zip harder to pull up but I have both and look less dumpy than I did in skinnies.

biggienotsmall · 11/05/2025 19:58

KentishMama · 11/05/2025 18:47

Skinny jeans are not really in fashion at the moment, and if you carry your weight in the middle, then they emphasise that. What other shapes have you tried?

Ive tried them all, and the skinny ones are the only style that look ok, baggy/boyfriend style make me feel short and dumpy

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biggienotsmall · 11/05/2025 20:00

Fuhjutvb · 11/05/2025 18:52

Anyone tried Snag jeans?

No?? Tell me more?

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biggienotsmall · 11/05/2025 20:02

uncomfortablydumb60 · 11/05/2025 18:55

Levi 501’s ( skinny)
They’re slim rather than slim and come up high enough to hide pot belly
They’re a nice shape around the bum
Loads on Vinted if you don’t want to commit to full price.
Brand alley often has them too

I had a pair of 501s back on the 90's, when I was young and skinny 😂...and they were a great fit,

I might take a look on vintage, thanks 😁

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SilviaSnuffleBum · 11/05/2025 20:03

Skinny/slim jeans don't suit an overweight frame, but if that's the style you prefer, then Levis's 501 or Diesel Skinzee.

Moier · 11/05/2025 20:09

New look. High waist magic Lift jeans.

UnderThePressure · 11/05/2025 20:09

I am the same dress size and height as you and my weight is mostly round my middle. I swear by Next Power Stretch Denim Leggings. If you have a 30/31" inside leg the Regular fit are good with enough length to tuck in boots (I'm a 31" inside leg and Next states a 31" is a Long but I disagree!) These are the only jeans I've worn for the last 5 years, they was well and the black ones stay black, there's no bagging round the knee, I love them!

supercatlady · 11/05/2025 20:12

TK MAXX sometimes stock a US brand called Angels (Forever Young) - the most comfortable and flattering jeans I’ve ever owned. I also like skinnies and was 18 when I bought them last.

AmateurNoun · 11/05/2025 20:14

Spanx do jeans if you want something with a little bit of tummy control. I've had a few pairs off Vinted and been impressed (although I think I suits skirts better tbh)

biggienotsmall · 11/05/2025 20:16

UnderThePressure · 11/05/2025 20:09

I am the same dress size and height as you and my weight is mostly round my middle. I swear by Next Power Stretch Denim Leggings. If you have a 30/31" inside leg the Regular fit are good with enough length to tuck in boots (I'm a 31" inside leg and Next states a 31" is a Long but I disagree!) These are the only jeans I've worn for the last 5 years, they was well and the black ones stay black, there's no bagging round the knee, I love them!

Are the blue ones called something different? I can only find the black ones?

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Thatnameistaken · 11/05/2025 20:38

I used to love Sainsbury's Tu slim fit jeans but they stopped making them last year. The next best thing I've found for my shape is M&S lily jeans.

lovegoodlovegood · 11/05/2025 20:51

SilviaSnuffleBum · 11/05/2025 20:03

Skinny/slim jeans don't suit an overweight frame, but if that's the style you prefer, then Levis's 501 or Diesel Skinzee.

Depends on your shape, there’s not just “overweight”
i am a 5ft 10 fat hourglass and skinny works loads better on me that wide leg or carrot which both looked awful

fatgirlswims · 12/05/2025 01:36

I hear you 100% at size 18 I tried a multitude of mom jeans but they looked awful. Hight waist skinny it is. Spent a long time this winter hunting the perfect pairs.

I get all my jeans from Vinted now it’s so affordable and like many other I buy jeans and hate them after one wear!

try in order of how good they are:
MS Ivy Supersoft Black (washed black)
new look Yasmin black (dark black) and pale blue
MS Lily dark black
NL HANNAH ankle grazers in vintage blue
MS HARPER CIGARETTE
american eagle curvy mom.
ASDA Miley (size down?)

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