A few days ago my DS (primary age) took me aside and said DH grabbed him by the collar and pushed him. This was after DS lost something and was having a melt down. DS does not want me to broach with DH because ‘he will mill me’. DH later apologised to DS for shouting but not for grabbing him. I am angry and upset. There are other non violent behaviours from DH to me. DH has not discussed this with me so as far as he knows I am unaware. He can get angry easily but is having therapy. Really uncomfortable with all of this and considering LTB, financially would be stricken and/or slow process.