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Baby Daddy Sleeps In

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littleprawn2024 · 16/04/2025 10:36

My baby’s dad kept cancelling on seeing him in February. We agreed to meet once a week moving forward so he could show he can be consistent as a result of this.

Our arrangement was to meet at 10am on a Wednesday. He lives 30 minutes from us. Today he’s messaged me at 10:15 saying he slept in and asked to meet at 11am.

I made sure baby was ready for 10am, I only let him have a short nap as we were seeing his dad and he will need a nap at 11am.

Am I being unreasonable for saying no as the BD isn’t sticking to our arrangements?

OP posts:
Theunamedcat · 16/04/2025 10:37

Baby will most likely be asleep but if you want to sit and watch him 🤷‍♀️

Theunamedcat · 16/04/2025 10:38

He might be doing this so you will say no and then he can say I tried but she wouldn't let me so personally I would do my utmost to avoid saying no

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