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To expect a thank you?

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Nomdemare · 23/03/2025 18:55

Without being too outing, have recently done a huge amount of voluntary community work and raised a very substantial amount of money. It’s been an incredibly complex project bureaucratically and in terms of people management.
I’m not expecting an outpouring of gratitude, publicly or otherwise, but I’ve been taken aback by the level of ignorance and entitlement. Barely a thank you.
The logical part of my brain says just put it down to experience and relish in having achieved really difficult goal. But - I’m human! - a thank you or even an acknowledgment of the sheer effort it has taken would be appreciated.
I can’t get over the sense of entitlement !

OP posts:
JMSA · 23/03/2025 19:00

YANBU. And well-done you! Halo

Eldermilleniallyogii · 23/03/2025 19:00

Is there a specific person or organisation you expect the thank you from?

JLou08 · 23/03/2025 19:01

Who do you want a thank you from?

IPM · 23/03/2025 19:02

Barely a thank you.

What does 'barely' mean in context?

Nomdemare · 23/03/2025 19:05

@Eldermilleniallyogii @JLou08 @IPM

without being too outing - I managed to win funding of several thousand pounds to go direct to small business owners, approx 10 in
all. A thank you from only two.

edited to add ‘small business owners’

OP posts:
JLou08 · 23/03/2025 19:14

Nomdemare · 23/03/2025 19:05

@Eldermilleniallyogii @JLou08 @IPM

without being too outing - I managed to win funding of several thousand pounds to go direct to small business owners, approx 10 in
all. A thank you from only two.

edited to add ‘small business owners’

Edited

In that case then you certainly do deserve a thank you from the business owners.

Eldermilleniallyogii · 23/03/2025 20:03

How come you were helping them?

I'm sure they probably should thank you!

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