I don't know if I am being ridiculous or not
Few weeks ago, neighbour asked if I'd pop in to feed his pets while he's away. No problem at all for me to do this.
The 2 days before he goes away he texts me to say ohhhh btw, I'm having work men in while I'm away. I instantly felt irritated. I hate having work men in my own house, I didn't want to contend with them in soneone else's. Anyway, I'd already agreed to feed pets so decided to suck it up.
So I pop round this evening at 18:00 and workmen still there. I felt weird and awkward ( I'm neuro diverse). I rushed through the feeding and left, intending to pop back and check all was well a bit later. 8pm and the workmen still there. 10pm and they still bloody there!! So I'm off to bed!
I messaged neighbour who said the guy does work late sometimes.. Should I just go to bed and not go back round? Work men are smoking and chatting loudly in the garden
I'm proper irritated but cos of my autism I can't judge if I should feel this way