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Contacting social weed around baby

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MummyAndLilah · 17/03/2025 00:20

Someone I know smokes weed around his baby daily. The mother also will often but vapes constantly in the home, do I report to SS? Completely anonymously? If they investigated; they would find so much weed. He’s probably growing it.

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Lavender14 · 17/03/2025 00:31

Yes you should report. How old is the baby? Is he caring for the baby alone at times while under the influence, does he drive under the influence?

Dazzlemered · 17/03/2025 00:38

I know a family like this, they absolutely stink. The kids clothes, prams and car seat. It’s disgusting. SS have done nothing!

scoobysnaxx · 17/03/2025 00:44

Absolutely report this asap.

they are smoking DRUGS around a baby.

MummyAndLilah · 17/03/2025 13:24

Lavender14 · 17/03/2025 00:31

Yes you should report. How old is the baby? Is he caring for the baby alone at times while under the influence, does he drive under the influence?

8 months! Yes, he’s already been disqualified from driving while drinking in the last year. My partner’s friends btw. So I’m hoping I can do it completely anonymously. I hate the fact he’s friends with them.

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craigth162 · 17/03/2025 13:25

At my sons nursery people frequently turn up with them and their kids and prams etc stinking of weed. No authorities care. It's disgusting.

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ldnmusic87 · 05/02/2026 13:22

Disgraceful, report.

Didshejustsaythatoutloud · 05/02/2026 13:25

Report to police first, weed smell is everywhere now. I think this would be quite low on ss priorities, sadly.

FMLGFastMovingLuxuryGoods · 05/02/2026 13:26

Definitely report as they may already have SS involvement. But be expected for nothing to happen

Angaelliptical · 05/02/2026 13:27

You should contact a Children’s Services social worker. Children’s services rely on referrals like yours, to build up an idea of what a chilld’s life is like. Sometimes it might seem like they do nothing but information is collated and inquiries are made behind the scenes.

Wolfiefan · 05/02/2026 13:49

ZOMBIE THREAD

Locutus2000 · 05/02/2026 14:26

Wolfiefan · 05/02/2026 13:49

ZOMBIE THREAD

And social services still won't care.

Abd80 · 05/02/2026 19:46

100% report. Babies deserve to live a life where they’re not exposed to drugs and drug addicts.

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