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help1972 · 15/03/2025 21:28

here we go again i have found other women on my husbands phone.. not work related or friends.. other women he is chatting to ... i forgave him about three times he slept with one and now ... i think i am at breaking point

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NeedToChangeName · 15/03/2025 21:30

How awful. A leopard doesn't change its spots. What will you do now?

ChorusOfDisapproval · 15/03/2025 21:31

Oh dear. Sorry to hear this, it's never a nice thing to find out. I really don't think I could forgive this if you've already given him chances before.

PlumFairies · 15/03/2025 21:31

help1972 · 15/03/2025 21:28

here we go again i have found other women on my husbands phone.. not work related or friends.. other women he is chatting to ... i forgave him about three times he slept with one and now ... i think i am at breaking point

Now your at breaking point? What makes this different from all the other times? Leave him, you deserve better.

ItGhoul · 15/03/2025 21:32

He keeps doing it because you forgive him every time. You need to leave this man. He’s never going to stop cheating.

NotbloodyGivingupYet · 15/03/2025 21:33

He's not going to stop, is he. So sorry OP.

Smokeyblueblack · 15/03/2025 21:39

I agree with pp: by forgiving him you have given him permission just to carry on doing what he wants because he has no consequences to face.
He doesn't respect you OP.

Elliemayclampett · 15/03/2025 21:40

Bin him.. you may think you don’t have the strength right now, but you will find it. I’m a year down the line.. didn’t think I’d survive.. but I did and I’m thriving.

CallMeFlo · 15/03/2025 21:42

So are you going to overlook it for a 4th time. He's not got any real incentive to stop cheating when you forgive him time and again. Either accept you're married to a serial cheater or do something. Kick him out.

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