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What do you do after work in the evenings?

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Hookahchakkah · 10/03/2025 19:30

We’ve just lost our dog and after doing nothing but moan about walking him and how much time he took up we are completely lost as a family. I’m like a robot hoover with no purpose every evening. I can’t bear to go for a walk for no reason and I just don’t know what to do with myself. It’s very early days and I know it takes time so tell me what you did this evening after work and what you will do

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LonelyLeveret · 10/03/2025 19:38

Massive hugs, they leave a big hole and it will take time to adjust. This evening I'm curled up on the sofa and I've been reading the Salt Path, I keep meaning to make more time for reading. I also might do a bit of knitting, I'm making a really crap wonky hat.

BinChicken25 · 10/03/2025 19:38

I was going to say a silly answer like ‘drive back and forward to football training all night’ but then I read your post. So sorry to hear about your dog, I can see why it would be hard for you to go out walking without him.

Do you have a garden/like gardening? That would get you back outside at least.

toomuchfaff · 10/03/2025 21:00

Aww I'm so sorry about your lil pooch, 😢

Do anything.. go do the weekly shopping, clear the garage, go the tip, go to the cinema (cheap tickets midweek).

Doggymummar · 10/03/2025 21:04

Aww sorry we lost ours a month ago. We slob out mostly, TV scrolling and napping

ForRealCat · 10/03/2025 21:04

So sorry about your pupper. Can you contact Cinnamon Trust maybe when you are ready. Walking is so good for you, it would be a shame to stop such a healthy habit.

FieldInWhichFucksAreGrownIsBarren · 10/03/2025 21:07

Sorry for the loss of your pooch.
I have a soak in the bath then either read, watch shit TV or Tik-tok whilst drinking tea and eating crap I really shouldn't.
I still miss our nightly dog walks and we lost her many years ago, I do still go for walks a couple of times a week though.

BreezySwan · 10/03/2025 21:29

We lost our dog on Saturday, Sunday I sobbed, today I made myself go swimming and feel so much better for it. Weather is dark and rubbish so was proud to make it out the house. Tomorrow I have a church group and later in the week I need to arrange to meet up with a friend to keep myself busy. Sorry for your loss x

CarpetKnees · 10/03/2025 23:51

I'm sorry you've lost your dog.

To answer your question,

We are both out the house 3 or 4 nights a week, doing things we enjoy.

What do you enjoy doing, @Hookahchakkah ?

No good me saying I go for a swim, or to a karate class, or to a choir, if you can't swim or hate Martial Arts or can't sing.

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