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To think this is weird, valentines gift

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lucciee · 14/02/2025 22:57

I saw a child on the way in holding a gift bag that said 'happy valentines' I overheard the mum saying to another that it was for the childs teacher. Aibu to think that is a bit strange?

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Needmorelego · 14/02/2025 22:59

Why is it weird?
It was probably a homemade card and some chocolates.

TeenLifeMum · 14/02/2025 23:00

Needmorelego · 14/02/2025 22:59

Why is it weird?
It was probably a homemade card and some chocolates.

You don’t find a child giving an adult teacher a Valentine’s gift a bit weird?

Needmorelego · 14/02/2025 23:05

TeenLifeMum · 14/02/2025 23:00

You don’t find a child giving an adult teacher a Valentine’s gift a bit weird?

No not really.
Valentine's Day is a saints day that has evolved over centuries about what it means and stands for and how people choose to celebrate.
Some people celebrate it as a day of "love" and even love means different things to different people.
Many children "love" their teachers and want to do something nice for them.

TeenLifeMum · 14/02/2025 23:10

Needmorelego · 14/02/2025 23:05

No not really.
Valentine's Day is a saints day that has evolved over centuries about what it means and stands for and how people choose to celebrate.
Some people celebrate it as a day of "love" and even love means different things to different people.
Many children "love" their teachers and want to do something nice for them.

@lucciee I think we found the mum 😂

MuddyPawsIndoors · 14/02/2025 23:12

How old was the child?

If they were 4 then it's quite sweet.

If they were 14 then it's bordering on weird.

RoundoffFlick · 14/02/2025 23:13

My child made their teacher (and me, and sister) a card. They just love occasions. To them it's another thing in the year you celebrate like Easter, Halloween or Christmas. School did a few valentine related things so I don't think it's odd she would see it that way.

BookASpaceCadets · 14/02/2025 23:14

lucciee · 14/02/2025 22:57

I saw a child on the way in holding a gift bag that said 'happy valentines' I overheard the mum saying to another that it was for the childs teacher. Aibu to think that is a bit strange?

How old was the child??
5, could be considered quite sweet, mum going along with it to keep the peace…
15, weird and massively inappropriate.

lucciee · 14/02/2025 23:14

MuddyPawsIndoors · 14/02/2025 23:12

How old was the child?

If they were 4 then it's quite sweet.

If they were 14 then it's bordering on weird.

Not entirely sure but I would say around 8 or 9

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Needmorelego · 14/02/2025 23:14

@TeenLifeMum nope wasn't my kid 😂

TunipTheVegimal24 · 14/02/2025 23:37

It's cute and innocent - take it the way it was intended. I highly doubt the parent was trying to set the child and teacher up on a date.

It's just like giving a teacher a Christmas or end of term gift.

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