Please excuse me @PMD29 but I need to explain -
There is a Fertility forum on Mumsnet:
https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/infertility
There have been TWENTY FIVE replies today to threads on there, so plenty of traffic.
Mumsnet is not called "AIBU", it is a forum with loads of sub topics where you wlll get better, more specific, less caustic replies if you post in the correct sub forum.