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Had surgery and now off sick - going out

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Poppins17 · 02/02/2025 11:31

I’ve had surgery to remove a lump in my breast. Thankfully it’s benign.

I have a sick note from the hospital for post surgery time to recover.

What are your thoughts on going out when I feel up to it?

I live and work in the same area so highly likely I’ll be seen by someone I work for/with or know from work. Likely my friend will encourage me to meet her next week for a coffee or a walk around.

I’m not thinking major things like holidays or concerts etc, just a walk, coffee, food shop, pet shop visit and maybe tea out at the pub.

Thanks.

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Panickingnowhelp · 02/02/2025 11:34

That's fine, being signed off to recover means to do just that, recover.. it is not a house confinement note.
Sounds like a walk and a coffee and then some errands will be helpful in your recovery as you're building up to return to work.
Don't stress about it.

Welshwhales · 02/02/2025 11:36

Exactly what previous poster said, it’s for you to recover both physically and mentally.

ByQuaintAzureWasp · 02/02/2025 11:43

I wouldn't be doing a supermarket shop ... too much lifting after surgery. Walk, out fir coffee or lunch fine.

Poppins17 · 02/02/2025 11:49

ByQuaintAzureWasp · 02/02/2025 11:43

I wouldn't be doing a supermarket shop ... too much lifting after surgery. Walk, out fir coffee or lunch fine.

Thanks for the responses.

I wouldn’t do shop on my own, either after work with DH or go with my retired (but fit and able) parents.

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billybear · 02/02/2025 12:01

i was off work once after a knee operation, was in local hospital grounds on crutches on my way for pysio under manager spotted me and shouted caught you going out while off work .. i was so angry i swore at them , you are allowed a visit out you will get depressed staying in

autumn1610 · 02/02/2025 12:18

I’m signed off following an operation. I went out with a friend from work on the following Saturday, I’ve gone into town and had lunch and a walk round, gone out for tea and gone to a board game cafe, this week coming im getting a massage. The surgeon advised I walked daily anyway to help with recovery. I’m not in a position to be back at work, but I will go crazy staying in the house! Even being out for a few hours wipes me out, so struggling to see how I will cope with an 8hour day

ThinWomansBrain · 02/02/2025 12:23

it would be slightly mad to go from 24/7 bed rest straight back to full time work - why wouldn't you go out while recovering?

biscuitsandbooks · 02/02/2025 12:25

It's normally encouraged to go out while you're recovering from surgery or illness. You're fine.

Newnameshoos · 02/02/2025 12:27

I wouldn't worry about going out while you're convalescing. It's an awful myth that if you are signed off, you can't go out of the house.

Songlines · 02/02/2025 12:29

I went with a friend to GP appointment when she was signed off after surgery. I'd been encouraging her to come away with me for a few days but she wasn't sure. When I asked the doctor she said 'that's a great idea, just what she needs'.
Go for it

Poppins17 · 02/02/2025 15:02

Thanks everyone, I think it’s the age old expectation of if you’re well enough to be up and about you could be sat at your desk working - or - working from home even.

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