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am I being stalked?

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ThatLilacHedgehog · 20/01/2025 01:52

I received a weird follow tonight on Instagram from an account that had a picture of a tree as its profile picture, the account was new and had 0 followers and the only person they was following was ME.

i checked my message requests and there was a message from this account saying they love my profile and I’m a great looking woman. I’m worried this could be someone from my area stalking me, I don’t know?

am I over worrying?

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ComtesseDeSpair · 20/01/2025 01:59

It sounds more like a romance scammer, sending the same message to hundreds of women and seeing who bites. Just block the account.

steff13 · 20/01/2025 02:07

It's just one is those weirdos who try to get you to interact with them to scam you. I used to get them all the time, until I made my profile private. Now I have to approve people to follow me.

ThatLilacHedgehog · 20/01/2025 02:15

steff13 · 20/01/2025 02:07

It's just one is those weirdos who try to get you to interact with them to scam you. I used to get them all the time, until I made my profile private. Now I have to approve people to follow me.

Why would they only follow me?

also thanks I feel a bit better now

OP posts:
steff13 · 20/01/2025 02:21

ThatLilacHedgehog · 20/01/2025 02:15

Why would they only follow me?

also thanks I feel a bit better now

I think they just try to see who they can get to take the bait.

IamnotSethRogan · 20/01/2025 06:29

They probably have multiple accounts or other people didn't accept the follow

PringlePot · 20/01/2025 07:04

I had this, I played along as I was bored. He said he was from America, had photos etc. I tricked him and he confessed he was a scammer from Nigeria. I think he ended up thinking I was also a scammer pretending to be an English woman and he started talking to me in Nigerian and laughing we was both scammers. It's very common OP

Changingplace · 20/01/2025 07:12

ThatLilacHedgehog · 20/01/2025 02:15

Why would they only follow me?

also thanks I feel a bit better now

They’ve probably only just set up the account, just ignore/delete, I used to get all sorts of weirdos following me on Instagram so I changed my settings and have to approve anyone now, they’re just scammers.

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