Hi
I’m a first time mum to twins, and aside from DH’s days off I’m alone handling the twins.
My patience level of handling petty drama has gone much lower than pre-babies- I just can’t handle bs anymore.
My thing is if you can’t make my stressful life any easier then please don’t make it harder.
But my immediate family members just seem to love adding stress. They cause arguments over nothing e.g my car was full with me my husband and our 2 baby seats in the back so I couldn’t drop my mum somewhere (my sister said she would do it) and she caused an argument over that.
We’re all travelling soon for a family wedding and I feel they’ll just make it so much harder for me. The drama the pettiness I love them all but since having the twins I can’t handle extra stress anymore
any reassurance or advice?