My sister dates a douchebag

[AugustFagerudd]

Hey I need some advice..
My sister is in a relationship with this guy who sometimes treats her badly, he can be cold and doesn't seem to be there for her when she really needs him. I've been worried about her because I feel like she deserves someone who truly cares for her and supports her, especially when she's going through tough times. I’m thinking of talking to her about it, but I’m not sure how to bring it up without upsetting her.
Do you think I should have that conversation with her? And if so, how should I approach it?
Thanks in advance🙃

Can you give some specific examples of his behaviour? How old is your sister? How long have they been together?

What is a douchebag?

Talk her as lovingly as you can, but be honest about how you see the relationship.

It will upset her, but that doesn't mean you turn a blind eye to it. Who knows? She probably knows he's shit and will appreciate the validation.

Once you've done your bit however, it's up to her to recognise she deserves better. If she does, support her in leaving.

Thanks for the advice, appreciate it!!

Hmm he ghosts her messages daily, won't comfort her when she's having a hard time (someone she knew passed away and he didn't even bother to ask her if she's okay), and generally just takes her for granted.

• She's 20 and they have been together for 2 years.