Bew Years Eve party non invite

[Wmarie22]

So every year for the past 10 years my so called BF and family come to mine for NYE,often for Xmas day too.
The last 2 years she has had a party with family and this year some friends, but although I wasn't doing anything, I wasn't invited.
Am I right to feel utterly miffed,I know it's up to them to invite who they wish,but knowing I was alone and to leave me out after all the times I've hosted to me is like a slap in the face!

Have you spoken to them?

People only do shitty things like this to people who they think won't confront them about it.

How did you find out?

She actually told me!
I was quite shocked, and didn't want to say well am I invited,because clearly I wasn't.

Wow. She’s got some brass balls. I’d have to ask her about it now. Very rude - unless there‘s a deeper reason, like since last new year you’ve gone to the toilet in her back garden or sold her grandad off for his kidneys!!

No not yet, I normally am one to speak my mind but I'm not sure how to react,if I'm being iver sensitive.

Lol nope non of that.
I don't really have a clue what her problem is.
Last of my parties sges coming to though that's for sure!

That's not kind. I'd ask her why she didn't invite you. It could be she invited a group who all know each other and didn't want to add anyone to the mix.

As you say she wouldn't be top of my list for the next one.

If you've hosted a party for the last 10 years could she just have assumed you were busy doing own thing and didn't think to invite you?

So ,unfortunately she did know I was not doing anything this year as have had a rough year and couldn't face hosting a party myself.xx

YANBU, but might she have assumed you weren't up to it given that you couldn't face hosting your own?

Honestly, no she definitely wouldn't have thought that.
Hosting,preparing food,shopping etc isn't the same level as attending someone else's gathering.
She knows me well enough I feel.