I female (26) has been with my boyfriend (26) for the past 5 years & we have two children together.
His Best friend and him have recently fell
out. His best friend keeps ringing and texting me randomly night and day asking me to ask why my boyfriend isn’t speaking to him anymore. He then added me on Snapchat, bell ring me some times to basically try and sit and slag my boyfriend off to me. He try’s to tell me that I shouldn’t trust my boyfriend that he knows plenty of things he’s done.
i have been telling my boyfriend each time he messages me to contact him ( my boyfriend doesn’t really use social media or a phone)
my boyfriend just says he doesn’t want to speak to him anymore because he’s a bad influence.
his friend today told me he wanted to come round to my house to see my partner. I told him my partner was not in yet and would be back about 6. He said he was just going to hang around for a bit and walk his dog. He then rang me to ask if he could stick his phone on charge as his battery was going to die.
so I let him stick his phone on charge tbh I took it of him to charge but he then asked if he could come inside to go to the toliet so I said yes. He then sat trying to talk to me asked what I was doing & I said I was just going to have a little drink for Xmas eve he said are you not going to get me one so I grabbed him one of my boyfriends beers.
it was just very awkward, he stood there the whole time asked to go to toliet several times. Telling me that he drinks wine now because of me & asking if I could remember things I had said to him years ago. He kept mentioning my boyfriend might find it weird him being there so he was going to go before he got back. I was
thinking to my self I thought you was
coming to see him so why leave before he returns but ok. He then asked to go toliet again, told me he couldn’t wee that’s why he kept going to the toliet.
he was then grabbing at his pants, telling me that I have made him hard since he walked through the door he has had a hard on the whole
time he then tried to kiss me which I declined!!!
I really don’t know what To do