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Feeling awkward about builders in my house

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kitchencountry · 20/12/2024 14:25

Hi all,

We’re having some work done on our new build knocking walls down and opening up the kitchen and while I trust the builder we’ve chosen, I feel so awkward having strangers in my house all day, I offer them tea and coffee but feel uneasy even doing that and it doesn't help that he's attractive too!
I work from home, so I’m constantly aware of the noise and disruption, and I get almost shy, to the point I don’t even want to use my own toilet to have a shit in case they hear it lol!

Is it normal to feel like this? Any tips on handling it without seeming rude

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ComtesseDeSpair · 20/12/2024 14:45

If you need building work done then there’s not really any way around having builders in the house, so it’s just a matter of grinning and bearing it.

If you feel awkward about offering tea and coffee, go and buy a cheap kettle and some tea / coffee / biscuits etc to put in whatever room they’re working on and tell them to help themselves whenever they want - I’ve always done that so that I can work interrupted or go out and know they can sort themselves out. And your bathroom habits are not even going to register - builders are used to working in all sorts of disarray and among all sorts of household activity, they’re immune to it all!

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