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ThePerkyCoralPoet · 09/11/2024 17:21

Leaving my role very soon. Staff member sent an all staff email regarding me leaving. Told me to delete ir bur of course. I looked forst. In that email it stated that i am “moving onto pastures new, not better, just different”

Quite frankly this hurt me. Because Ive worked really hard to get this role elsewhere and now all the staff are probably thinking “shes going from one piece of shit to another”

Another thing they did earlier in the week was, when I was asked to be in the new employee prospectus picture. She said “oh yes i was also asked earlier. I was told how put together my outfits always look”

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ThePerkyCoralPoet · 09/11/2024 17:23

Aibu for feeling a bit fed up of this behaviour and cancelling pre booked dinner plans with her last minute? (It was a no fee cancellation. I just got a bit moody about things)

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FionnulaTheCooler · 09/11/2024 17:24

Honestly, I'd let it go and just be glad you won't have to see any of them ever again. Who cares what they think, it's completely irrelevant.

mathanxiety · 09/11/2024 17:25

You're leaving. Whoever sent that email was ta the rest of the state to think there's no better place to work, so your new job isn't going to be better (the subtext is, there's no point trying to improve your situation/ stay and don't leave me short handed).

Also, the bit about the prospectus - someone quite controlling is in charge.

InformerYaNoSayDaddyMeSnowMeIGoBlameALickyBoom · 09/11/2024 17:25

I can't see anything wrong with either if those things tbh, the first was worded for the benefit if the staff who are staying, and the second was just making conversation.

ThePerkyCoralPoet · 09/11/2024 17:33

mathanxiety · 09/11/2024 17:25

You're leaving. Whoever sent that email was ta the rest of the state to think there's no better place to work, so your new job isn't going to be better (the subtext is, there's no point trying to improve your situation/ stay and don't leave me short handed).

Also, the bit about the prospectus - someone quite controlling is in charge.

Huh

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ThePerkyCoralPoet · 09/11/2024 17:33

FionnulaTheCooler · 09/11/2024 17:24

Honestly, I'd let it go and just be glad you won't have to see any of them ever again. Who cares what they think, it's completely irrelevant.

True x

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thanksicloud · 12/11/2024 05:51

ThePerkyCoralPoet · 09/11/2024 17:33

True x

but you didn’t let it go

you reposted exact same thread minutes ago… 5 days later 😕

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