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To be bloody sick and tired

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sickandtiredofitallnow · 04/11/2024 16:26

NC for this.

My name is Karen.

I have just left yet another FB group because I expressed an opinion (politely) and was called (by a guy, obviously) a Karen.

At what point do we start calling this hate speech? This is the second group I've had to leave this week (perhaps I need to choose my FB groups more carefully) due to being slagged off by my name. For voicing a genuinely mild opinion.

I thought it would have died a death by now but apparently not. I feel like crying sometimes. I'm too old to change my name and why should I? I always call them out on it but I'm just sick of it all now.

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Oneofthosedreadfulparents · 04/11/2024 16:46

It's lazy, misogynistic and belittling. (For reference, I'm not named Karen).

BashfulClam · 04/11/2024 16:52

I’ve been called ‘a Karen’ by a bloke and my name isn’t Karen. I also got told to ‘go back to onlyfans’??? More like ‘onlynans’ at my age. I just don’t let it get to me.

2024onwardsandup · 04/11/2024 16:54

It’s pure misogyny. Which disappointingly women hope on board with as often as men.

sickandtiredofitallnow · 04/11/2024 17:00

BashfulClam · 04/11/2024 16:52

I’ve been called ‘a Karen’ by a bloke and my name isn’t Karen. I also got told to ‘go back to onlyfans’??? More like ‘onlynans’ at my age. I just don’t let it get to me.

I don't normally but for some reason this time it has. Perhaps because it's the second time this week.

Normally I just tell them to grow up but it becomes wearing.

I think I shall start reporting it every time.

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