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To be worried about son's friend?

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dani9223 · 04/11/2024 12:08

My son aged 8 has a good friend from school, lets call him Tom (not his real name).
Tom comes over to play at ours a couple of times a week and is a really nice boy, very good manners and always respectful. My concern is that, each time Tom comes, he makes a beeline to the kitchen and asks for something to eat. Tells me he's hungry every time he comes to our house. As he's such a sweet and nice boy who never forgets his manners, I don't mind feeding him. I'd never see a child go hungry but I'm just concerned that he's always hungry when he comes to ours. I don't really know his mum well enough to say anything. Do I mention it to school or anything?

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Love51 · 04/11/2024 19:13

My primary aged kids once went to the childminder in the holidays and joined her partner (registered assistant!) at the table for breakfast. At pick up she mentioned it, as in I usually give them breakfast. I'd given them breakfast that day! They conned their way into a second one!
In the absence of other signs it might just be that you have interesting food.

EalingLucy · 04/11/2024 19:26

Is this after school? Isn’t he hungry for dinner?

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