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What's reasonable for a howdens door

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Pierella · 16/10/2024 23:59

What's reasonable for a a few doors to DB's day rate he's a carpenter and want him to have mates rates as I earn well in my own field and am doing a bungalow up to sell soon and he knows this he's done a really good job though he's been off recently for a bereavement as have I but my DB's self employed and I know it's been a struggle?

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Hep1989 · 17/10/2024 07:11

I think if you are doing up a bungalow to sell you should pay him his full day rate. You have to pay all the other contractors their proper rates, why would you not support your brother in the same way? Especially if you can/ have the budget to?

Maestoso · 17/10/2024 07:21

Your DB is self employed and it's been a struggle. You earn well. Why do you want mates rates? Bloody rude. Or have I misunderstood your question?.

FeatherBoat · 17/10/2024 07:30

That's crazy. Ask him I what he can be paid for mates rates if that's what you want to offer him.

I wouldn't expect my brother to work for less on a project that I was doing to make money though.

Jc2001 · 17/10/2024 08:17

Pierella · 16/10/2024 23:59

What's reasonable for a a few doors to DB's day rate he's a carpenter and want him to have mates rates as I earn well in my own field and am doing a bungalow up to sell soon and he knows this he's done a really good job though he's been off recently for a bereavement as have I but my DB's self employed and I know it's been a struggle?

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BeMintBee · 17/10/2024 08:20

Just pay him his usually day rate anything else is just taking advantage

Thanksforyourlackofthought · 17/10/2024 08:26

Sorry, just so I’ve read it right as it’s a little unclear.
You are renovating a bungalow to sell?
You earn well? (Not sure why that’s relevant)
Your DB is self employed and has been struggling?
You’d like him to fit some Howdens doors at ‘mates rates’ so a lower rate than he normally charges?

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