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To feel conflicted about going on benefits for the first time?

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RareGoose · 16/10/2024 16:18

I’ve always been employed, but after being paid off from my last job where I was treated horribly, I’m now claiming benefits for the first time as my savings are dwindling. I never thought I’d be in this position, and I’m not sure how to feel about it. Anyone else been in a similar situation?

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ButtSurgery · 16/10/2024 16:22

Well, it's there as a lifeline for us all when we need it, so clearly you need it.

Are you able to work?

Catza · 16/10/2024 16:24

We pay into the system so it is there to protect us (and others) while we are vulnerable. You shouldn't feel bad about it.

StevieNic · 16/10/2024 16:24

I felt odd claiming child benefits, as I’ve never claimed anything before.

RareGoose · 16/10/2024 16:25

ButtSurgery · 16/10/2024 16:22

Well, it's there as a lifeline for us all when we need it, so clearly you need it.

Are you able to work?

I am, I just haven’t been successful in securing a new job yet, but I’m actively looking.

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wiesowarum · 16/10/2024 16:26

It's designed to support those in need, if you're in need then there's no shame in claiming what you're entitled to.

ExhaustedHousewife · 16/10/2024 16:53

Your "job" at the moment is looking for work, don't feel conflicted for using something that you've paid into for years.Good luck in the job hunting.

Unexpectedlysinglemum · 16/10/2024 21:33

RareGoose · 16/10/2024 16:18

I’ve always been employed, but after being paid off from my last job where I was treated horribly, I’m now claiming benefits for the first time as my savings are dwindling. I never thought I’d be in this position, and I’m not sure how to feel about it. Anyone else been in a similar situation?

That's exactly what it's there for xx

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