I'm a mum of 4 boys married to a verbally abusive man. I mean derogatory words, comparisons and straight up 5 year old insults. Recently the abuse has got so much worse and my boys are watching all of this. There's absolutely nothing in this "relationship" for me. Zero. I'm only here because I can't fully afford to take care of the boys financially and I'm also concerned about how I would support them all. Basically the bottom line is, I want a divorce and I want my boys with me as their dad is a horrendous role model. What can I do. Advise needed please especially on the legal process.