Off to a wedding baby will be 3 months wedding is 30-40 minutes away and then lunch the day after. I have found a cheap hotel room next to the venue and think it would be way easier to stay over so no drive back with baby after a long day. We are then in the location for lunch the next day lunch is optional and we have just been asked if we would like to come. Husband has said no point in getting a hotel he will just drive back. I then mentioned having to go back the next day for lunch but he said let’s just not go. It’s his family not mine.