Waiting and wondering about abortion

[Maisie2930]

Hi I would love some answers. I’m about to have my second abortion. The first one was after giving birth and having my child and it didn’t hurt . My theory is because my body had already experienced contractions and my cervix ect had already had the experience. Am I right in my way of thinking and think my abortion that is coming up is going to feel the same ? Has anyone else had this procedure after a child and experienced the same . Thanks x

I've had two, first one was a bad period second was the same. Good luck with this and don't feel guilty you're doing the best thing for you

I had one without having any children and it was completely painless too. I don’t think it matters whether you had kids or not.

I'm wondering the same.
I have two children and recently found out I'm pregnant.
I really don't want another baby. My children are older and that part of our lives is in the past.
But I feel so guilty of getting rid. I'm worried I'll never get over terminating.

I also had one in my mid 20s, no kids and it was completely pain less. I don't think having had a kid already makes much of a difference.

Update .... had the abortion. Was a mild period pain wise .... I have realised now it definitely goes by how far gone you are. I was 10 weeks first one I had and that hurt like hell ... second one I was 7 weeks and didn't hurt . Recent one . 6/7 weeks and didn't hurt at all .... the nurse I had even reassured me in her words " your early stages so will feel like mild period pains" hope this helps others xx

Sorry realised my original post said second abortion ... my mistake . I have had 3 ... stupidity led me to the first one and failed emergency contraception lead me to the next two... I told my nurse the emergency pill I took and she claimed so many of her patients had took the same one that had failed ... in a nut shell the cheapest emergency pill is the most effective... Ella one is the least affective!!! I asked how are they getting away with it being on the shelf available, she said because they advertise the clearly on the box the rate of how affective it is .... im not gonna lie , im 33 and have had a few morning after pills in my years and this is the only one that has failed me .... and I took it the night after the sex ... she also was very informative that if alcohol was consumed the time it happen and the next morning you take the pill , the percentage of it working drips massively .... I took mine the morning I woke up after sexual activity 2/3am the same morning ...

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