To want to move abroad

[Namefonow]

My relationship is rocky. We have 5 kids between us. 2 are mine. I’m so fed up. All I do it work. We have our own business. He is regularly unfaithful. I want to just pack up and move to Sapin. Am I mad?

Are any of your kids also his? If so, he can stop you from moving abroad with them.

BREXIT has made it much harder to just piss off abroad but I wish you luck. You sound at the end of your tether and life is too short to waste waiting for some fuckwit blood to start behaving.

You would still have to work if you moves to Spain. Are you planning on the leaving the children behind? Do you speak Spainish? Have skill which are in demand in Spain and are you likely to get a job and a visa?

Where do the kids feature in this move? Would you take your 2 with you? If so, are they happy and settled and have a great bond with their other 3 siblings? How old are the kids? A lot of questions there but obviously a lot to think about. Leaving is one thing and I would say absolutely if he is unfaithful and you are miserable. But moving abroad you would have to consider a lot of other factors which is why I question. Why Spain? What would you plan to do there?