If your partner was uncommunicative in terms of you never knew what any plans were and he only communicated or did things when you screamed and shouted ONLY what would this mean? I’ve tried over past 14 years to communicate and get him to be more involved in things but he only responds when I’m at breaking point. I don’t want to get in a habit of doing this as it makes me feel like shit and I get unwell then but don’t know what else to do. I think only way I can get him to care or even respond about things us to scream and shout!