I have two boys. Eldest is 21. Youngest is 15. Last week, I went on hols for 5 nights with youngest. Eldest is very sorted and lives independently with a lovely partner. We get home and youngest is being utterly vile to me! I've always tried my best. I've always worked super hard. His father was convicted of physically abusing his elder brother. Not of me. Which was strange. Because the only reason my son intervened was because the ogre hit me. I don't know what to do. I've taken his phone off him. But that's not helping!