Or at least the best I can hope
For...
50/50 house.
No
Pressure to sell house until
Last child leaves third level Ed.
E50 per child per week until last child
Leaves third level
Ed.
E35k for third level education.
Third level will cost approx e85k,
Projected, but may be much less of they get grants which they may.
He won't touch my pension or shared second home. These are worth approx e100k to him.
He doesn't really see kids .
Kids have medical cards.