To leave the groupchat

[Liverpoollass2]

I have two friends, we all get on well and used to meet up regularly. Lately everytime I try to organize a meet up they agree and then cancel last minute, like literally within 2 hours of meeting. Usually one says they can make it and the other says to reschedule. The last time was for my birthday and we still haven't rescheduled. We are all busy with work, kids, life but im a firm believer in that you make time for the things you really want to do and I know they meet up with other friends more regularly. The group is starting to get me down and not really a positive thing in my life, its a reminder that im not considered worth meeting, am I being unreasonable to just leave the group and move on?

I’d just stop suggesting a meet up and let it drift, sorry they’ve been rubbish friends x

Yeah, don’t suggest anything further. Then you will see the real status of the friendship.

Leaving the group is a statement. Are you looking to make a statement and potentially stir up drama/bitchiness?

If not, just stop writing into the group or simply archive it.

There’s posts on here nearly every day asking shall I leave the group, shall I delete the group… just stop looking at it!

Yeah i think while id actually like to leave the group at this point might be making a big statement. I've muted the chat and locked it, just going to focus on the friends who make me feel good

I’m going through similar at the moment with my two best friends, finding it so hard because i’m very down lately and i’ve reached out to make plans a few times and don’t get a response or its nothing set in stone so i’ve pulled away
its really hard and sad i hope your okay