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My DD2 just went under in pool very briefly

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advicedo · 19/07/2024 10:22

She was sitting on the step and fell in. I know how terrible that is. We were right there.

She was probably in the water for 5 seconds.

She cried when I plucked her out but she didn't even cough up any water.

She was just a bit upset from the shock. But after around a minute just stated playing normally.

Is she ok or do I need to take her somewhere ?

I know dry drowning can be a concern.

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advicedo · 19/07/2024 10:33

Anyone ?

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MrBigsCat · 19/07/2024 10:35

If she was ok after I wouldn’t take her any where? Is she a baby?

SoupDragon · 19/07/2024 10:36

Why is it terrible? You fished her out promptly.

How old is she? When they are young they have a very good dive reflex so won't take a breath underwater.

iamtheblcksheep · 19/07/2024 10:36

She’s fine. Please invest in baby swim. It will stop your child from drowning

TaupeRobin · 19/07/2024 10:36

Was not spluttering when she came up? Probably means her mouth was closed and she didn’t have chance to inhale.

Wentie · 19/07/2024 10:37

Depends how old she is. 2 weeks? Not great. 4 years, she’ll be fine.

advicedo · 19/07/2024 10:37

She's 2. She was under for a few seconds before I fished her out. It's just never happened before.

It didn't seem like she'd swallowed water but we can't be sure.

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SoupDragon · 19/07/2024 10:38

iamtheblcksheep · 19/07/2024 10:36

She’s fine. Please invest in baby swim. It will stop your child from drowning

It won't stop a child from drowning. It will just give them a better chance of not drowning. Which, obviously, isn't a bad thing but you shouldn't get complacent.

MrBigsCat · 19/07/2024 10:39

By the way you haven’t done anything terrible or even wrong, kids wanting to sit and play in water is totally normal and you were right there - a lesson learnt about water that’s all. She sounds fine now

advicedo · 19/07/2024 10:39

MrHarleyQuin · 19/07/2024 10:38

It happens - Just keep an eye on her in case she feels unwell later.

https://www.webmd.com/children/features/secondary-drowning-dry-drowning

It's very rare.

Thanks. I'm just reading up on the difference between secondary drowning and dry drowning.

It was so scary to see her sinking, like a stone. Terrifying.

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Maryamlouise · 19/07/2024 10:41

I have been paranoid about this in the past and they have always been fine. That link a PP shared is pretty helpful and reassuring.

OrwellianTimes · 19/07/2024 10:45

She will be fine - she was under for seconds, didn’t cough up water.

I know it’s scary - but you were there keeping an eye on her. Ice cream and lots of cuddles.

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