I’m 45 years old and no signs of the menopause yet. The last month or so I ache so much, my back, neck and shoulders. I roll over in the night and it hurts, I get up in the morning and it hurts to the point I don’t want to get up really as I know it will hurt. It does ease during the day mostly but then by night my neck and shoulders hurt a lot. I just wondered if other women my age have had/have these pains and whether it’s normal at my age or could be linked with the menopause?