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After how long did he say "I love you"?

32 replies

coffeestains · 05/07/2024 15:47

That's it really! I'm just curious! Only person who has ever told me that was ex husband after 4 months...

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Esssa · 05/07/2024 15:48

3 weeks! We are married now and been together 7 years.

Emmerald · 05/07/2024 15:49

Think it was around the 3 month stage. I said it first though a couple of weeks earlier, hadn't meant to say it so soon but it slipped out! 😂

DrinkUpBabyDown · 05/07/2024 15:50

He said it out of the blue about 6 months in. We were already living together (long story) and I was very unsure about him. It really took me by surprise and made me even less sure. We're married now and have a child so I'm very glad I chose to stay with him.

Kingoftheroad · 05/07/2024 15:50

Before he’d even asked me out

Chocaholicnightmare · 05/07/2024 15:52

9 months (him first). Don't underestimate a slow burner

Merryoldgoat · 05/07/2024 15:56

2 months. Been together 19 years.

Didimum · 05/07/2024 16:10

I said it at 6 months, he said it at a year.

ebts · 05/07/2024 16:12

About ten days! It took me a bit longer. We were together for 30 years until his death.

CatamaranViper · 05/07/2024 16:23

I told DH after 3 months and he told me after 5.

Alaimo · 05/07/2024 16:26

It was on our 1-year anniversary, but we were quite young (early/mid-20s). We've been together 14 years now.

UpUpUpU · 05/07/2024 16:27

Mine still hasn’t 😂😂 he will text love hearts and shows he loves me but never said it out loud. He’ll say I love being with you etc. He is a widower though, so will never expect it. Actions speak louder than words

NeedToChangeName · 05/07/2024 16:31

6 months

Itsallsostressful · 05/07/2024 16:32

About 4 months...we said it at the same time 🤗

89redballoons · 05/07/2024 16:39

About a month, which was way too early but we were only 21 and were very drunk and horny loved up.

We've been together 16 years, married 6, 2 kids, still very in love. If someone had told me when we'd just met that this would happen, though, I would have been amazed Grin

user1984778379202 · 05/07/2024 16:40

Three months. Next year is our 20th anniversary.

sentfrmmyiphone · 05/07/2024 16:41

10 days... been married 11 years now

MissingMoominMamma · 05/07/2024 16:41

About three weeks.

We’ve been together for 27 years.

Berlinlover · 05/07/2024 16:42

He said it after 7 weeks, I said it after six months. We’re together nearly four years.

Yiayoula · 05/07/2024 16:45

After about a month , I think !
I was 18 and he was 21.
Celebrated our Golden Wedding anniversary last year.

LadyWhistled0wn · 05/07/2024 16:46

A year.

Been together 18 years.

Bbq1 · 05/07/2024 16:49

Pretty much straightaway. Engaged after 6 months, married 18 months later and we've just celebrated our 25th wedding anniversary.

CaptainCallisto · 05/07/2024 16:52

After about a week, I think; certainly very, very early. We've been together 17 years now, married 15, with two children. He still tells me every day.

caringcarer · 05/07/2024 16:55

3 1/2 months at a Xmas party.

Cocolapew · 05/07/2024 16:55

Him within a week, me couple more weeks. Been married 29 years.

ginasevern · 05/07/2024 16:55

25 years.