Dating on girls holiday

[rubyrosaa]

Hi, I am off on a weekend away with my cousin who is the same age as me (30). I am in a LTR and she is single. She mentioned that she wants to go on dating apps and go for a few drinks and dinner one of the nights with someone (we are only away for 3 days). AIBU to be a bit irked to be cast aside for a date? I almost feel my company is not interesting enough for her and she obviously isn't going to pursue a relationship with whoever she meets up with.

I'd be annoyed about that. She can go dating any other night she isn't on the trip with you!

She just wants a shag on holiday. I can see her point.

I'd be really annoyed too. She's out of order

They're only away for 3 days. Surely she can manage for 3 days.

OP, I think it's really rude.

I wouldn't mind if there was another person on the holiday with us but she's leaving me to go out on my own for a night and we have a shared hotel room so I'd be concerned about her looking for a "shag" and taking them back to our room! 😳

Why doesn't she just go on holiday by herself then she can do what ever she wants as regards meeting up with guys?

What if she meets someone the first night and spends the rest of the holiday with them?

I'm not surprised you feel annoyed.

Oh, I'd be laying down the law. Tell her that she can't bring anyone back to your shared hotel room!

‘Girls’ is about right, she’s behaving like a horny 20-year-old. YANBU.

That’s no cool of her. If something happened naturally and she ended up chatting to someone and wanted to take it further for the night that’s fine. But her planning ahead to make plans for a whole night of a three night trip is selfish.

😂that is what I thought!

She probably should have gone away on her own, then. Or with a single friend.