I may be being foolish here but lately the way my partner has been talking about women is becoming a turn off. Now it's nothing flirtatious, but he constantly watches things about women being gold diggers and not wanting to cook /clean and women aren't shit. Like it's becoming all we watch and he talks about. In no way is that how our relationship is. I work 50* hours a week, I cook and clean and pay bills. I figured ah just a video or 2 but every single day it's the same thing. He even started to change his appearance because of the things other women said they want from a partner, but when I asked for these things it was something for him to think about.