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Am I overreacting

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Treeslovetrees · 27/06/2024 13:58

My LTP, we live together not married, started new job in January and became friends with Molly, who is married, obvs not her real name. Molly sends kisses, selfies, hearts, is handsy, giving hugs, he tells me this, and all round flattery towards him in her texts. My partner thinks this is not his problem to deal with and can’t see why I feel annoyed that he doesn’t put a stop to it.
Am I overreacting. Or she Molly sending signals that she is interested in my partner.
I really could use different perspectives please.

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Surprisedmystified · 27/06/2024 14:08

He is obviously enjoying the attention from her.
By not shutting her down and distancing himself from her he is encouraging her. I wonder if her DH knows about this/ is happy about this?
It's obviously inappropriate behaviour. If you have told your dp you are not happy and he refuses to do anything to put a stop to this before it develops into something more serious he is showing total disrespect to you.
I would be reassessing my relationship with him if he doesn't listen to your very reasonable concerns.

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