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Or is my boss a bit of a tool?

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Dontbeabitterlemon · 25/06/2024 17:16

He will say things like
'Back in my day the kp nuts had a picture of a nice pair of bangers behind them".
I said it was like a sauna and he said 'Oh I better get naked'.
He frequently says things like 'it's not good being stuck in a tight hole is it?' Or 'i love having a good poke around in a hole'. And makes a creepy, self-satisfied grin.
Every joke he makes is at another's expense.
He is passive aggressive. So moans about something pertaining to you in front of you, to someone else but is rarely direct.
He'll say things like 'them gays over there.'
He waits until you've done something and then proceeds to tell you how differently he would handle it despite being privy to how you were dealing with it at the time.
He just gets on my nerves. He's like an unevolved dinosaur.
He talks badly about others in the office when they are not there, saying they are 'I'm a shit job for their stage of life' or 'like Gareth from the office, dim and parochial.'
He never gives credit or anything of praise/appreciation for going the extra mile, staying longer, doing a great job etc.

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KnickerlessParsons · 25/06/2024 17:19

I'd report him to HR for those sexual innuendos. Not appropriate anywhere, let alone an office.

Dotto · 25/06/2024 17:19

I'd leave. It's intimidation and harassment.

Clarinet1 · 25/06/2024 17:19

Yes, he’s a tool! I’d be polishing up my CV if I were you.

AmandaHoldensLips · 25/06/2024 17:20

Have you ever called him out on it?
I wouldn't be able to help myself.

Dontbeabitterlemon · 25/06/2024 17:20

There is no HR unfortunately

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KreedKafer · 25/06/2024 17:21

He sounds like an absolute twat

Dontbeabitterlemon · 25/06/2024 17:21

Yes several times but he just evades it.

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Dotto · 25/06/2024 17:22

How long have you been there? I assume it is a small company in the private sector

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