To think DH is being an arse?

[Ohdosodoffdear]

Nc for this.

DH has been away for 4 days on a jolly, he's had a lovely time by all accounts. The DC have played up like they are possessed, it's been a loooong 4 days.

He just text asking if I'd be wearing sexy underwear when he got home. I replied with a laughing face and he's now got the arse. He knows the dc have been terrorising me, I've had 2 noisy kids parties, plus the usual activities and clubs, homework, housework etc.

I feel like telling him to fuck off...AIBU?

Absolutely not!

Ridiculous. He's completely clueless!

YANBU, tell him you need a rest & he can have a tug while you do so, CF!

Sounds like he’s missed you and hasn’t properly
taken into account the strain you’ve endured while he has been away. I wouldn’t tell him to fuck off but I would tell him what he’s been missing… and not in a sexy way.

I'm glad I'm not being ridiculous, the bloody notions on him!

Agree with other posters, it's because he's missed you. Don't think he should have gotten moody about it but has probably taken the laughing face to mean you haven't missed him like he's missed you.

Obviously your just so tired from 4 days of the kids whilst he's had a break. I don't really know what you can say to fix it at this point but you know him best so I'm sure you will find something suitable