I (44F), DH (46) and DD’s (8 & 10). Myself and husband are very different with different interests I’m not particularly social whereas he really is. The problem is that he expects to go out several nights a week and this can either mean a mixture of not coming come at all, him sleeping in our annex, sometimes the spare room and sometimes our bedroom. I suffer from quite a lot of anxiety/stress and it can manifest in some pretty chronic insomnia at times. My issue is that he frequently goes out and doesn’t come home or he comes home at 2am or he invites friends around and sometimes up until 3am - drinking/playing pool(in the annex). He promises to be home by a certain time and then isn’t or just stays out, the inconsistency and his inability to stick to a sensible time is really taking its toll. I work full time and have little time for myself and for the past 8 weeks my insomnia has been severe and I’ve asked my DH to just help me by reining in the late nights and he never does….last night at 10:45pm he announces a friend is coming over to play pool…AIBU?