It's been 3.5 years since the split and he doesn't have any school uniform at his flat. On his weekend he collects the kids on Friday from school and returns them to school on Monday. He says the uniform doesn't get dry in time even if he washes it Friday evening so he's said for months he will get his own uniform for them. The school is very relaxed about uniform so supermarket uniform is fine, so not that expensive.
Tomorrow the kids have an inset day so won't be going to his in uniform. I asked him if he had uniform yet, because I've had a mad week and haven't managed to do much washing. He said no and just to send the dirty stuff and he'll wash it.
I'm exhausted at the thought of digging out dirty uniform from the washing basket. I'll also have to send shorts and trousers etc so they can pick what to wear on Monday. I'm very unlikely to get the other item back because I usually don't get stuff back from his. He doesn't pay maintenance. I feel like I'm throwing clothes away.
I'm tempted not to send any uniform at all to teach him a bloody lesson but that'll just mean the kids suffer.
AIBU to be fed up ðŸ˜