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School99 · 05/06/2024 22:06

So I’m sure I’m not the only one, but I’ve posted twice in the last few days, completely different questions in the appropriate forum for the question and got zero replies. Am I doing anything wrong ? Would changing my wording help ? Or are my questions inherently unanswerable? 🤔

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TwattyMcFuckFace · 05/06/2024 22:08

I don't know, can you link to the threads?

soupfiend · 05/06/2024 22:09

Me too. No one ever answers my queries. I think they're too boring. One of my threads was about belts. I mean belts for goodness sake!

I need to develop some drama and chaos, perhaps about inheritance or an argument with a school. Seems to get people going.

loropianalover · 05/06/2024 22:10

It’s just luck I imagine. Maybe the few people who would be interested in the post weren’t online that day, maybe you posted at a time where it was ‘quiet’ on the forum…

AnneLovesGilbert · 05/06/2024 22:10

Is your thread title clear enough? “Can you help” in chat for example is going to get lost before it gets replies.

BobnLen · 05/06/2024 22:12

It's maybe because it's in AIBU or Chat and drops off quickly, if you post within a subject that it's relevant to it will stay nearish the top and people will visit that subject and maybe reply.

AutumnFroglets · 05/06/2024 22:17

A lot of people click/refresh the Active or Trending links instead of going into a specific forum. Your thread could drop to the end of the list within two minutes. Every once in a while I click the Last Hour link and it brings up mostly threads that I have never seen in Active. Mumsnet logarithms are weird.

Can you link your threads here?

Feelingmentallyunsettled · 06/06/2024 09:18

I've done a search and seen your 2 recent threads.
I'd read your one asking for ideas about storage solutions when you posted it. I know it was a simple sounding question but when I thought about it any answer I could give would have been long and involved and I really didnt have time to think and write. And I think that's the same with some unanswered threads: it takes time and thought to answer and sometimes it's easier not to bother

As regards your other thread I don't remember seeing that one when it was posted. But I absolutely know nothing about contour so couldn't have answered it anyway. And there are quite a few threads outwith my experience or knowledge so I just can't answer. And that's probably the same for others.

I do feel bad for OPs when their threads are unanswered but sometimes feel any contribution I could make wouldn't be helpful to them.

Durdledore · 06/06/2024 09:20

Can you link to your previous threads here? We can try to help x

GrandHighPoohbah · 06/06/2024 09:28

Sometimes it depends on the board, the timing and the thread title. As PP have said, at really busy times, a boring sounding thread on a fast moving board will drop off active very quickly.

BobnLen · 06/06/2024 10:36

I found your storage thread in Chat, OP, it may do better in the Housekeeping board

Bananalanacake · 06/06/2024 10:44

Have you got a lazy OH or had a row with a friend about money, those get a few replies

GalacticalFarce · 06/06/2024 10:52

Storage solutions? Talk about your mil interfering in your storage solutions or your dp arguing with you about it. You'll get plenty of replies.

ClemmyTine · 06/06/2024 11:09

I'm smiling because the op hasn't answered any of the answers 🤣

TwattyMcFuckFace · 06/06/2024 11:24

@ClemmyTine , me too! 😂

FuelCell · 09/06/2024 14:19

The storage solutions one was bordering on unanswerable (or at least very time consuming to answer fully, which I wouldn't do considering a good % of posts the OP never returns after the OP).

That post in particular needed to be more specific and give details of the issues you are having/the space you have available. Tackle one type of thing/area at a time.

I'm quite into storage, and have a lot of solutions but I wouldn't have known where to start without asking for more info from you.

FuelCell · 09/06/2024 14:21

Ah and now just seen you started this thread four days ago and haven't been back. You come across as a time-waster.

JudyP · 09/06/2024 14:49

Me too! Not one reply in style and beauty - and I know it's not very stylish but it's clothes related! 😀

Uniqlo http://www.mumsnet.com/Talk/styleandd_beauty/5091721-uniqlo

Mairzydotes · 09/06/2024 14:54

Maybe other threads fill the active posts.

I've noticed people asking on some posts if the op has made a post about that before.

Or you can try the online failsafe of posting an incorrect statement rather than asking a question .

Scissorsisters · 09/06/2024 15:20

Back in the day, there was a button that brought up unanswered threads. If I was bored I'd answer them all!

Sparkletastic · 09/06/2024 16:29

In the earlier days of Mumsnet some posters would make a daily effort to trawl for and answer unanswered posts. Them were the days <misty eyed jumpers for goalposts smile>

Sparkletastic · 09/06/2024 16:30

Scissorsisters · 09/06/2024 15:20

Back in the day, there was a button that brought up unanswered threads. If I was bored I'd answer them all!

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