To not want to see him again

[Prawn99]

The guy I was seeing randomly went travelling with some mates for 3 and a half months without even telling me he was going away. He then did not contact me one single time whilst he was gone so I just left it at that whilst he was posting photos of his travels with groups of girls they have met there . He’s now back home as of the last couple of days and has asked to meet next week. He’s acting as if nothing happened and thinks things will pick back up. What would you do?

Bin him. You are likely just one of his options.

He wants sex and nothing more.

You can do better. 💐

I'd ignore. He has shown he doesn't care about you.

You are only a hook up for him. Only meet him if that's all you'd be wanting from seeing him.

Do you really need to ask?! He went away for over three months without telling you and then wants to hook up now he's back. That's what this is, a hookup. Nothing more. Fine if that's what you want, but if you're looking for a relationship then you're absolutely not on the same page as him.

Ignore, block and don't give him a second thought. You are worth much more.

When I met my husband it was just before he was going travelling for a month! We’d only been on 4 dates when he left. He text me every single day. This man has made you an option, not a priority - bin him.

Ignore him

Hope you replied ‘who dis?’