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To find the noise of gum chewing disgusting?

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blueberrygirl91 · 27/05/2024 15:36

I've been working in a library recently, and I find people sitting around me chewing gum so triggering. The sounds of chewing and spit swilling about put me on edge. Do you find it anti-social?

I also find the nail-biting and mouth noises associated with it triggering. I do think it's just me getting sensory overwhelmed but I'm curious to know does anyone else feels the same.

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pootlin · 27/05/2024 15:38

Sounds like you have misophonia.

No, it doesn’t bother me.

I’m sure you do things that annoy other people, we all do.

CatamaranViper · 27/05/2024 15:40

No but I get like this with whistling and sniffing. It's misphonia.
I feel irrationally angry when I hear people whistle and have to remove myself from the space.

MolkosTeenageAngst · 27/05/2024 15:43

I don’t notice it and am not bothered by it but I chew gum a lot and it does make me anxious that it can be viewed as disgusting or annoying etc by other people. I worry a lot that I am absent mindedly chewing with my mouth open or chewing noisily/ visibly and how other people might perceive me as I have a couple of friends who find gum disgusting so I’ve always been a bit paranoid since they voiced it (not at me, just in general conversation). I don’t think you are alone in feeling like that about gum.

StormingNorman · 27/05/2024 15:49

Gum chewing is grim. I would be asking them to leave as the library is a quit place.

blueberrygirl91 · 27/05/2024 16:16

MolkosTeenageAngst · 27/05/2024 15:43

I don’t notice it and am not bothered by it but I chew gum a lot and it does make me anxious that it can be viewed as disgusting or annoying etc by other people. I worry a lot that I am absent mindedly chewing with my mouth open or chewing noisily/ visibly and how other people might perceive me as I have a couple of friends who find gum disgusting so I’ve always been a bit paranoid since they voiced it (not at me, just in general conversation). I don’t think you are alone in feeling like that about gum.

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Can I ask why do you chew gum? I've never gotten into it. Does it help you focus or anything like that?

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blueberrygirl91 · 27/05/2024 16:17

StormingNorman · 27/05/2024 15:49

Gum chewing is grim. I would be asking them to leave as the library is a quit place.

Nah I dont think I have a right to ask them to leave. Like a pervious poster said, I'm sure I do things that annoy people in too.

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MolkosTeenageAngst · 27/05/2024 16:19

blueberrygirl91 · 27/05/2024 16:16

Can I ask why do you chew gum? I've never gotten into it. Does it help you focus or anything like that?

I think it’s because I am sensory seeking, as a child I was always chewing on pen lids or my sleeves and my nails etc. I have autism and adhd which I think is maybe why I seem to have a need to have my mouth doing something more than others, I do have chewellery and stuff I can chew on at home but it isn’t very socially appropriate in public as an adult. If I feel anxious or overstimulated or dysregulated chewing gum definitely helps and yes, I think it does help me focus in situations like when I’m driving or if I have to sit and write a report etc.

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