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What's the line between showing interest and looking too keen?

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Dont1981 · 16/05/2024 17:04

As women we have it drilled into us to play it cool, let a man chase, don't look too eager and so on.

So how do show you interest without doing any of the above? Obviously there are extremes like declaring love after 1 date, naming him your boyfriend the day after you met him, sending 50000 texts and so on.

So how do you show interest? I don't think a smile here and there cuts it. So many women are scared of initiating, asking men out and so on because apparently it puts men off, and it's sad .

I'm single and just don't understand the whole thing.

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CM97 · 16/05/2024 17:05

Nor do I... I have just started on line dating and it's a minefield. If you work it out, let me know 😂

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